Scene Queen Dreams: A Guide to Emo and Scene Style for Transgender Girls

This guide is designed to help transgender girls explore and embrace the emo and scene aesthetics. It provides information and tips on clothing, hair, makeup, accessories, and overall attitude to help you express yourself authentically within these subcultures. This journey is about self-expression and finding what makes you feel confident and comfortable. Remember that there’s no single ‘right’ way to be scene or emo – it’s about personal style and attitude.

**Important Note:** This guide respects and celebrates the diversity of transgender experiences. Gender identity is personal, and the following suggestions are meant to be empowering tools for self-expression, not rigid rules. Adjust and adapt these suggestions to fit your individual identity and preferences. Safety and self-care should always be your top priorities.

## Understanding the Emo and Scene Subcultures

Before diving into the specifics, it’s helpful to understand the core elements of both emo and scene cultures.

* **Emo:** Emo originated as a subgenre of hardcore punk music. The aesthetic is characterized by emotional vulnerability, introspection, and a focus on feelings. Emo fashion tends to be darker, more understated, and more personal than scene.

* **Scene:** Scene culture is more flamboyant and visually striking. It emphasizes bright colors, bold patterns, and playful self-expression. Scene fashion often incorporates elements of punk, rave, and alternative styles.

While distinct, emo and scene often overlap, and many people identify with both. Think of it as a spectrum – you can lean more towards one or blend elements of both.

## Building Your Wardrobe: Key Clothing Items

Creating a scene or emo wardrobe requires careful selection of clothing items that reflect the desired aesthetic. Here’s a breakdown of essential pieces:

### Emo Staples:

* **Skinny Jeans:** Dark wash or black skinny jeans are a cornerstone of emo fashion. Look for distressed details like rips and tears for added authenticity. Brands like Hot Topic, ASOS, and even thrift stores are great places to find these. Don’t be afraid to DIY some rips!

* **Band T-shirts:** Show your love for your favorite emo bands with band tees. Popular choices include My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, Paramore, Taking Back Sunday, and The Used. Vintage band tees are especially coveted.

* **Hoodies:** A black zip-up hoodie is a versatile layering piece. Opt for one with band logos or subtle graphic designs.

* **Striped Tops:** Horizontal stripes, especially black and white or black and red, are a classic emo staple. Think long-sleeved shirts or fitted tees.

* **Converse or Vans:** Black Converse Chuck Taylors or Vans (especially checkered slip-ons or classic Sk8-Hi’s) are the go-to footwear choice. Beat-up and well-worn pairs are preferred.

* **Studded Belts:** A black studded belt adds a touch of edge to any outfit.

### Scene Essentials:

* **Skinny Jeans (But Brighter!):** While black skinny jeans are still acceptable, scene fashion embraces brighter colors and patterns. Think neon pink, electric blue, or animal prints.

* **Graphic Tees:** Scene tees feature bold graphics, cartoon characters, or band logos. Look for vibrant and eye-catching designs.

* **Tank Tops and Halter Tops:** Layer tank tops or halter tops over graphic tees for a more layered and playful look. Consider neon colors or animal prints.

* **Mini Skirts:** Plaid or brightly colored mini skirts can add a fun and feminine touch to your scene outfit. Pair them with leggings or fishnet stockings.

* **Leggings:** Leggings in various colors and patterns, including animal prints, stripes, and geometric designs, are a scene staple.

* **Converse or Vans (But More Colorful!):** While black Converse and Vans are acceptable, scene fashion encourages brighter and more customized footwear. Consider colorful laces, painted designs, or even platform versions.

* **Accessories, Accessories, Accessories:** Scene style thrives on accessories! Think chunky plastic jewelry, colorful hair clips, and bold belts.

### Finding the Right Fit for Your Body

As a transgender girl, finding clothing that fits and flatters your body can sometimes be challenging. Here are some tips:

* **Experiment with Different Cuts and Styles:** Don’t be afraid to try on different styles of jeans, tops, and skirts to see what works best for your body shape. High-waisted jeans can help create a more defined waistline.

* **Consider the Fabric:** Choose fabrics that drape well and don’t cling too tightly. Stretchy fabrics can be more comfortable and forgiving.

* **Utilize Shapewear:** Shapewear can help smooth out your silhouette and create a more feminine figure. Experiment with different types of shapewear to find what works best for you.

* **Shop at Stores with Inclusive Sizing:** Some stores offer a wider range of sizes and styles that cater to transgender bodies. Look for stores that prioritize inclusivity.

* **Tailoring:** Getting your clothes tailored can make a huge difference in how they fit and flatter your body. A tailor can adjust the length of sleeves, the fit of jeans, or the shape of a dress to create a custom fit.

### Sourcing Your Clothes

* **Thrift Stores:** Thrift stores are a treasure trove of affordable clothing and unique finds. You can often find vintage band tees, distressed jeans, and other emo and scene staples at thrift stores. Be prepared to spend some time sifting through the racks, but the rewards can be great.

* **Online Retailers:** Online retailers like Hot Topic, ASOS, and Amazon offer a wide selection of emo and scene clothing. You can also find independent designers and boutiques that specialize in alternative fashion.

* **DIY:** Don’t be afraid to get creative and DIY your own clothing. You can add rips and tears to jeans, customize band tees with fabric paint, or create your own accessories.

* **Etsy:** Etsy is a great place to find unique, handmade, and vintage items that fit the emo and scene aesthetic.

## Mastering the Hair: Scene and Emo Hairstyles

Hair is a crucial element of both emo and scene styles. Experiment with different cuts, colors, and styling techniques to create a look that’s uniquely you.

### Emo Hair:

* **The Emo Fringe:** The signature emo hairstyle is a long, side-swept fringe that partially covers one eye. This look can be achieved with a variety of haircuts, from layered bobs to longer, choppy styles.

* **Dark Colors:** Black, dark brown, and deep red are classic emo hair colors. Consider adding subtle highlights or lowlights for dimension.

* **Choppy Layers:** Choppy layers add texture and volume to emo hair. Ask your stylist for a layered haircut that frames your face.

* **Straight and Sleek:** Emo hair is typically styled straight and sleek. Use a flat iron to achieve a smooth, polished look.

### Scene Hair:

* **Big and Bold:** Scene hair is all about volume and drama. Think teased roots, backcombed layers, and gravity-defying styles.

* **Bright Colors:** Neon pink, electric blue, and vibrant green are popular scene hair colors. Consider adding streaks, highlights, or dip-dyed ends.

* **Asymmetrical Cuts:** Asymmetrical haircuts, such as side-swept bangs or layered bobs with uneven lengths, are a hallmark of scene style.

* **Extensions:** Hair extensions can add length, volume, and color to your scene hairstyle. Clip-in extensions are a great way to experiment with different looks without committing to permanent changes.

* **Teasing and Backcombing:** Teasing and backcombing are essential for creating volume and texture in scene hair. Use a teasing comb and hairspray to lift the roots and create a dramatic effect.

### Hair Styling Tips for Transgender Girls

* **Consider Your Face Shape:** Choose a hairstyle that flatters your face shape. If you have a round face, avoid hairstyles that add width at the cheeks. If you have a square face, soften your features with layers and curls.

* **Work with Your Hair Texture:** Embrace your natural hair texture. If you have curly hair, consider a curly layered haircut. If you have straight hair, experiment with different styling techniques to add volume and texture.

* **Consult with a Stylist:** A skilled stylist can help you choose a hairstyle that suits your face shape, hair texture, and personal style. They can also provide tips on how to style and maintain your hair.

* **Experiment with Different Products:** Experiment with different hair products, such as volumizing mousse, hairspray, and styling gel, to find what works best for your hair.

* **Don’t Be Afraid to Change It Up:** Hair is a great way to express yourself, so don’t be afraid to experiment with different styles and colors.

### Achieving the Look: Step-by-Step Hairstyling Guides

**Emo Fringe Styling Guide:**

1. Start with clean, dry hair.
2. Apply a heat protectant spray to your hair.
3. Use a flat iron to straighten your hair, paying special attention to the fringe.
4. Part your hair to the side and sweep the fringe across your forehead, partially covering one eye.
5. Use hairspray to hold the fringe in place.

**Scene Volume Styling Guide:**

1. Start with clean, dry hair.
2. Apply volumizing mousse to your roots.
3. Use a teasing comb to tease the roots of your hair, focusing on the crown of your head.
4. Backcomb the layers of your hair to add volume and texture.
5. Use hairspray to hold the style in place.
6. Add hair accessories, such as colorful hair clips or headbands, to complete the look.

## The Art of Makeup: Emo and Scene Makeup Looks

Makeup is another essential element of both emo and scene styles. Use makeup to enhance your features and express your personality.

### Emo Makeup:

* **Dark Eyeliner:** Black eyeliner is a must-have for emo makeup. Line your upper and lower eyelids with a thick, smudged line.

* **Dark Eyeshadow:** Use dark eyeshadows, such as black, gray, and deep purple, to create a smoky eye look.

* **Pale Foundation:** Use a pale foundation to create a porcelain complexion. Some emulate a goth-inspired look, pushing the pallor even further.

* **Nude Lips:** Keep your lips simple with a nude or natural-colored lipstick or lip gloss.

* **Focus on the Eyes:** Emo makeup is all about emphasizing the eyes. Keep the rest of your makeup simple and focus on creating a dramatic eye look.

### Scene Makeup:

* **Bright Eyeliner:** Use brightly colored eyeliners, such as neon pink, electric blue, and vibrant green, to create bold and graphic eye looks.

* **Bright Eyeshadow:** Use brightly colored eyeshadows, such as pink, blue, and green, to create colorful and playful eye looks.

* **Dramatic Eyelashes:** Use false eyelashes or apply multiple coats of mascara to create dramatic, fluttery eyelashes.

* **Bold Lipstick:** Use bold lipstick colors, such as bright pink, red, and purple, to make a statement.

* **Glitter:** Add glitter to your eyeshadow, eyeliner, or lips for a touch of sparkle.

### Makeup Tips for Transgender Girls

* **Color Correcting:** Use color correcting concealers to neutralize any unwanted tones in your skin. Green concealer can help to neutralize redness, while peach concealer can help to neutralize dark circles.

* **Contouring:** Use contouring to sculpt your face and create a more feminine appearance. Contour along your cheekbones, jawline, and temples to create definition.

* **Highlighting:** Use highlighter to accentuate your features and create a luminous glow. Apply highlighter to your cheekbones, brow bone, and the bridge of your nose.

* **Experiment with Different Looks:** Don’t be afraid to experiment with different makeup looks and find what works best for you.

### Achieving the Look: Step-by-Step Makeup Guides

**Emo Smoky Eye Guide:**

1. Apply a primer to your eyelids.
2. Apply a black eyeshadow to your eyelids, blending it out towards your crease.
3. Apply a dark gray eyeshadow to your crease, blending it into the black eyeshadow.
4. Line your upper and lower eyelids with black eyeliner, smudging it out with a brush.
5. Apply mascara to your upper and lower eyelashes.

**Scene Colorful Eye Guide:**

1. Apply a primer to your eyelids.
2. Apply a bright pink eyeshadow to your eyelids.
3. Apply a bright blue eyeshadow to your crease, blending it into the pink eyeshadow.
4. Line your upper eyelid with electric blue eyeliner.
5. Apply false eyelashes.
6. Apply glitter to your eyeshadow.

## Accessorizing Your Look: Jewelry, Piercings, and More

Accessories are key to completing your emo or scene look. Choose accessories that reflect your personality and enhance your style.

### Emo Accessories:

* **Studded Belts:** A black studded belt is a classic emo accessory.

* **Wristbands:** Wear wristbands with band logos or studded designs.

* **Chokers:** A black choker is a staple of emo fashion.

* **Piercings:** Emo individuals often have piercings, such as lip rings, eyebrow piercings, and nose rings.

* **Beanies:** A black beanie is a practical and stylish accessory.

### Scene Accessories:

* **Chunky Plastic Jewelry:** Wear chunky plastic necklaces, bracelets, and earrings in bright colors.

* **Hair Clips:** Adorn your hair with colorful hair clips in various shapes and sizes.

* **Headbands:** Wear headbands with bows, animal ears, or other fun designs.

* **Leg Warmers:** Wear leg warmers in bright colors or animal prints.

* **Fingerless Gloves:** Wear fingerless gloves in black or bright colors.

### Piercings and Body Modification: Considerations for Transgender Individuals

* **Placement:** Consider the placement of your piercings in relation to your body shape and proportions. Some piercings can help to accentuate your features, while others can be less flattering.

* **Healing:** Be aware that piercings can take time to heal. Follow your piercer’s aftercare instructions carefully to prevent infection.

* **Scarring:** Be aware that piercings can leave scars. If you are concerned about scarring, talk to your piercer about techniques to minimize scarring.

### Expressing Yourself Through Accessories

* **Mix and Match:** Don’t be afraid to mix and match different accessories to create a unique look.

* **Personalize Your Accessories:** Customize your accessories with paint, glitter, or other embellishments to make them your own.

* **Thrift Store Finds:** Thrift stores are a great place to find affordable and unique accessories.

## Attitude and Confidence: Embracing the Emo/Scene Spirit

While clothing, hair, and makeup are important, the most important element of being emo or scene is your attitude and confidence. Embrace your individuality, express your emotions, and be yourself.

### Developing Your Confidence

* **Self-Acceptance:** Accept yourself for who you are, including your gender identity and your personal style.

* **Positive Affirmations:** Practice positive affirmations to boost your self-esteem.

* **Surround Yourself with Supportive People:** Surround yourself with friends and family who support and accept you.

* **Focus on Your Strengths:** Focus on your strengths and talents, and celebrate your accomplishments.

### Finding Your Voice

* **Express Yourself Through Art:** Use art, music, writing, or other creative outlets to express your emotions and thoughts.

* **Speak Your Mind:** Don’t be afraid to speak your mind and stand up for what you believe in.

* **Connect with Others:** Connect with other people who share your interests and values.

### Staying Safe and Healthy

* **Prioritize Your Mental Health:** Take care of your mental health by practicing self-care, seeking therapy if needed, and avoiding toxic relationships.

* **Be Aware of Online Safety:** Be careful about sharing personal information online, and be aware of the risks of cyberbullying.

* **Protect Yourself from Discrimination:** Be aware of your rights and protections as a transgender person, and stand up against discrimination.

## Community and Support: Finding Your Tribe

Finding a supportive community is essential for transgender individuals. Connect with other emo and scene people online or in person to share your experiences, make friends, and find support.

### Online Communities

* **Forums:** Online forums are a great place to connect with other emo and scene people. Share your thoughts, ask questions, and participate in discussions.

* **Social Media Groups:** Join social media groups dedicated to emo and scene culture. Share your photos, connect with other members, and stay up-to-date on the latest trends.

### In-Person Communities

* **Local Shows:** Attend local emo and scene shows to meet other people who share your interests.

* **Meetups:** Organize or attend meetups for emo and scene people in your area.

### Resources for Transgender Individuals

* **Trans Lifeline:** Trans Lifeline is a crisis hotline for transgender individuals.

* **The Trevor Project:** The Trevor Project is a suicide prevention organization for LGBTQ youth.

* **GLAAD:** GLAAD is an organization that advocates for LGBTQ equality.

## Conclusion: Embracing Your Authentic Self

Being an emo or scene transgender girl is about embracing your authentic self, expressing your individuality, and connecting with a supportive community. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different styles, express your emotions, and be yourself. Remember that there’s no single ‘right’ way to be emo or scene – it’s about personal style and attitude. Most importantly, remember to prioritize your safety and well-being throughout this journey of self-discovery and expression. Be confident, be proud, and be you!